09.13.06
Question: Am I doing ok, or do I need a Mistress?
Dear Angela,
First please forgive me I am not the best speller and this is the longest letter Ive written in a long time!
A little backround. I work for a fairly big company, a magazine publisher. Worked here over 25 years as a janitor. When I first started, it was mostly men who worked here. A few ladies were secretaries. Today women run the company — the president, vice president, and on. They hire mostly ladies too.
Most of them are young and beautiful, so I don’t mind like some other guys do! My new boss is only 34 years old and she is gorgeous.
I think the ladies and my boss treat me better that the men ever did. When I clean their offices real good, they give me nice compliments. When I got my boss coffee and the other ladies, too, they call me a real sweet heart and a doll. They say I am the perfect man. So I do it almost everyday, especially for their meetings. I clean up after their meetings now too. My boss gave me a new title “maintenance engineer and office assistant” and says she is real proud of me.
I feel fulfilled when I serve these ladies, I cannot help it. But my buddy from maintenance says they are a bunch of women libbers and they are just using me cause im a little slow. He said beware of female supremecy, they really hate men (half joking).
So I looked it up on the internet and found your site. I read some of your aritcles about female supremcy, and about dominance. I must admit I cannot udnerstand all your big words (I am not the smartest guy and probly only a women could understand them). But after reading I see that women like you and my boss are naturally superior to men like me. I figure why fight it and you don’t hate men after all.
Here is where I need your advice. Do you think I’m doing the right thing by serving ladies in the office, or is it really demeaning like my friend says. Should I do more? Do you think I need to go thru Female Authority training or am I already trained enough? I do not know the first thing about having a mistress (I am single) and im not sure if that kind of relationship interests me.
I do know this. I really feel good about working for a women boss and your website has taught me more about my feelings. I would be very thankful for any advise you could give me.
Thank you, and bless you,
Howard
Howard,
It sounds like the sort of relationship you have with the women at your company is very fulfilling to you. There is no reason for you to make any changes in what you are doing just because other people might not want to do the same things.
As far as these ladies “training” you, they are doing a good job of training you for what they need you to do at work. There is no need to find a Mistress, but if you did wish to do that at some point, it would be a different sort of training, and what it would be would depend on the Mistress.
Don’t worry, it looks to me like you’re doing fine.
The Principal