04.03.07
Drag Queen or Woman?
On the TV show “Dog Eat Dog,” a college jock is challenged to pick out the only genetic woman from a lineup of drag performers.
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10.26.06
Well, somebody’s got to do something about it
This question is a comment written in response to my blog entry Niteflirt in the news…kind of…Part 1?:
I work for a company who USES Niteflirt. I am almost sure that they have taken the money and ran. I have not been paid for the last four pay periods and they keep telling me that niteflirt has frozen my acct. info. But they were able to free it up enough that i go back to work after a couple weeks. I don’t understand. I am tryig to work something out with all of my creditors..cause i’m on the verge of losing everything now. How do i find out if NiteFlirt froze my account or not.Lam
I was not thinking this was going to happen. Why, I’m not sure. I haven’t even finished part 2 of that original entry of mine. And I have so many other things I want to post on, but don’t find the time. But this is important, and will have to come first.
THEY ARE LYING TO YOU. Plain and simple.
I hate this. There are so many companies that put girls on Niteflirt, and there is no accountablility whatever. Niteflirt is there for the account owner, and as far as they’re concerned, it’s your problem if they don’t pay you. You should look at the contract, and compare what you’ve been getting paid to the tally you’ve been keeping on that scratchpad by your phone. If there is a discrepancy, or if you’ve been utterly ripped off, hire a lawyer. But don’t expect Niteflirt’s help. If you look at the setup, it almost looks like Niteflirt is there to enable your bosses to do whatever they damned well please to you. One of the services Niteflirt provides is complete privacy for members, so the same policies that would keep a customer/stalker from locating and harassing a flirt works to keep people like you from having access to information that would tell you how badly you’re getting ripped off.
And it’s so easy to start up a business account there. I haven’t done it, but judging by the caliber of people who have, I’d guess there is no requirement for having good credit or a clean criminal record.
Mind you, there are some legitimate companies that work the site and use Niteflirt’s services, but it is impossible to tell who is legitimate and who is not, from your position.
So here’s the deal. Either your account is frozen, locked, suspended – whatever you or they want to call it – or it’s not. There is no “partially frozen”, no “info frozen, but I can take calls”. If you’re taking calls on Niteflirt, then they have access to every dollar in your account. If Niteflirt suspended the account for some reason – meaning you were unable to receive calls for a while – then unsuspended it, it is again fully functional.
Have you been hanging out on the Niteflirt site, reading how the site works? They either pay once a month by direct deposit – money is withdrawn from your account on the 1st and arrives in your bank within a week – or they pay through daily direct deposit, at a 2% charge to the you, if you were the account owner – which you’re not. I’d give it a 100% probability that they are having any money you’ve earned removed from your account daily and deposited to them.
OK, so they owe you money. Chances are you really only have a vague idea of how much money they owe you, as they have probably not been giving you any statistics on this. If a pay period is two weeks, they owe you for TWO MONTHS of work.
Are you still working? Then stop. Don’t work for free. If you haven’t been watching Niteflirt with a plan to set yourself up and manage your own account(s), then you’re probably not ready to set yourself up.
I presume you know the names of the company owners and the name of the company, both of which should be on your contract. It’s time to send them a letter. It would be best if it was sent from an attorney, but second best would be if you mail them a letter saying that the next communication they receive from you will be from your attorney. Email them a copy of the text, saying that they will be receiving a paper copy shortly (send it by registered mail) and that you are getting in touch with the state labor office, which will also be getting in touch with them. Tell them you won’t be taking any more calls until they pay you all the money they owe you. Send a copy to Niteflirt, too.
Are you in communication with your co-workers? They should be doing the same things. In fact, you should get all your coworkers to call Niteflirt to complain about the “fraud”, which should get these people shut down, as it’s against tos. You aren’t expecting them to do anything to help you personally (they won’t), you’re just reporting it, because they need to know. Tell them what account you’ve been working, how long it’s been unpaid, about how much money you think you’re owed, and that you are in the process of hiring an attorney. They should freeze the accounts, then delete them and ban these people from working the site, at least for a while.
You need to find yourself another job. This isn’t a job. These people are just stealing from you. Go to www.sexyjobs.com and put up a resume, then look through the ads and contact some of the companies. Since you now have experience, you should get some response. I’ll be sending you an email about how to check on companies that contact you. There are companies that you don’t want to work for, and there are offers that are not legitimate.
You should have this done in today. It’s time to get on with your life.
A post-publish note: I sent a personal email to the address of the person who wrote this, and it bounced back. It was not a true email address. Therefore, in the very least, I am going to have to take into account the possibility that the entire communication was false. However, my advice stands. Nobody should ever work for free, period.
10.14.06
A dumb email
I also get emails asking dumb questions, and some of them are way too entertaining not to share with you readers.
—— Original Message ——
From: member john doe
Sent: 10/12/2006
Subject: roleplay callwanna do this roleplay with me
you were asked to teach sex education to the white girls because there has been alot of them getting pregnant in the school by big black boys. you start to tell them to watch out for the black boys with big balls because they are the ones that can get you knocked up. the girls are asking lots of questions about the diffrence between black and white boys. you decide to show them. you call me in front of the class and this black boy. you make us get undressed in front of the class and everyone sees my tiny cock and balls and his large bull cock and balls. you explain to them why they are called bulls. you tell them to look at my cock and notice how small it is compared to his. you then tell everyone to pay close attention to the balls. mine are tiny and cant hold hardly any sperm. but his are huge balls like on a bull and full of sperm. you asked how many times did he cum today and he said like 3 but they are still very full. you then notice that the black boy is getting hard and horny. so you tell him to have a seat before he gets out of control. he sits down but then you notice he is starting to get out of control and not listenning. then he grabs a little white virgin cheerleader throws her on the desk and pulls her skirt up. she doesnt want to fuck him because she is virgin, but you tell her she has to let him because he is only going to do it anyways and black bulls love white virgins. so he then fucks her hard and breaks her cherry and unloads his seed in her and gets her pregnant
let me know and i will call
john doe
My comment to you readers at this point is that this was not easy reading. It was clearly not written to be read, as it has no capitalization or paragraph structure. It was probably typed with one hand.
And totally aside from this, his fantasy wouldn’t happen in our school, as the ending is inconsistent with femdom or how we run our school. If he had half a clue, he’d have realized that and called somebody else.
I didn’t really want to talk to him, and I didn’t want to try to play out his fantasy.
—— Original Message ——
From: Principal Angela Quattrano
Sent: 10/13/2006
Subject: Re: roleplay callNo, that doesn’t sound doable.
—— Original Message ——
From: member john doe
Sent: 10/14/2006
Subject: Re: roleplay callany reason?
—— Original Message ——
From: Principal Angela Quattrano
Sent: 10/13/2006The “virgin” getting fucked in this scenario would be your white boy ass.
OK, so maybe he will like that and will call and spend a little money.
09.13.06
Question: Am I doing ok, or do I need a Mistress?
Dear Angela,
First please forgive me I am not the best speller and this is the longest letter Ive written in a long time!
A little backround. I work for a fairly big company, a magazine publisher. Worked here over 25 years as a janitor. When I first started, it was mostly men who worked here. A few ladies were secretaries. Today women run the company — the president, vice president, and on. They hire mostly ladies too.
Most of them are young and beautiful, so I don’t mind like some other guys do! My new boss is only 34 years old and she is gorgeous.
I think the ladies and my boss treat me better that the men ever did. When I clean their offices real good, they give me nice compliments. When I got my boss coffee and the other ladies, too, they call me a real sweet heart and a doll. They say I am the perfect man. So I do it almost everyday, especially for their meetings. I clean up after their meetings now too. My boss gave me a new title “maintenance engineer and office assistant” and says she is real proud of me.
I feel fulfilled when I serve these ladies, I cannot help it. But my buddy from maintenance says they are a bunch of women libbers and they are just using me cause im a little slow. He said beware of female supremecy, they really hate men (half joking).
So I looked it up on the internet and found your site. I read some of your aritcles about female supremcy, and about dominance. I must admit I cannot udnerstand all your big words (I am not the smartest guy and probly only a women could understand them). But after reading I see that women like you and my boss are naturally superior to men like me. I figure why fight it and you don’t hate men after all.
Here is where I need your advice. Do you think I’m doing the right thing by serving ladies in the office, or is it really demeaning like my friend says. Should I do more? Do you think I need to go thru Female Authority training or am I already trained enough? I do not know the first thing about having a mistress (I am single) and im not sure if that kind of relationship interests me.
I do know this. I really feel good about working for a women boss and your website has taught me more about my feelings. I would be very thankful for any advise you could give me.
Thank you, and bless you,
Howard
Howard,
It sounds like the sort of relationship you have with the women at your company is very fulfilling to you. There is no reason for you to make any changes in what you are doing just because other people might not want to do the same things.
As far as these ladies “training” you, they are doing a good job of training you for what they need you to do at work. There is no need to find a Mistress, but if you did wish to do that at some point, it would be a different sort of training, and what it would be would depend on the Mistress.
Don’t worry, it looks to me like you’re doing fine.
The Principal