09.19.06

Sugasm #47

Posted in Sugasm at 9:53 am by angela

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Featuring the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #48? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Lazy Sunday (http://www.chillivanilla.com)
“I flick my thumb across your clit, as if I were lighting a match, which, in many ways I am.”

The Secret (http://confessions112.blogspot.com)
“I came back to the bed and started to lavish kisses on him, savoring the inches of skin on him that I knew were mine and mine alone.”

You’re all I want (http://theholidaylife.blogspot.com)
“Go to the couch. Bend over. For me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
How to Cure Female Ejaculation (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Fetish, Fashion and The War On Terror (http://adelehaze.com)

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BDSM and Fetish
Double Penetration (Fangs & Cock) (http://la-day.blogspot.com)
Hurt Me, Please (http://everythingoze.blogspot.com)
Isabella’s Eyes – Part VIII (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
Morning quickie (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
The weekender #4: The beginnings of our lifestyle (http://seanandmel.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics
Asian 1 on 1 (http://www.internetisforporn.com)
Myspace Christine Dolce Nude (http://www.thesexbox.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
At a bar in a strange city (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Be Sure to Tip Your Waitress (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
I *not only* write porn, but I also just do it. (http://eternalapprentice.blogsome.com)
Insatiable (http://talktovanessa.com)
Just for the taste of her (part two)…and breakfast
(http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Last Night (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
Mr Henry writes debauched dialogue (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
The Rain (Part I) (http://grlnxtdoortx2.blogspot.com)
Sexwars (http://dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com)
A visit (http://edtimestories.blogspot.com)
You Can’t Come To My Room Tonight (http://makemycopcome.blogspot.com)

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Fat Man In A Barrel (http://www.orgasmarmy.com)
Meet the Sperm Testers (http://www.TaraTainton.com)
Product Review – Head Candy (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Sex and Booze (http://www.seskuality.com)
Sex Toys For Vacations (http://sultry.naughtyblog.net)
Straight Porn Review: Squirts So Good (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Ewww, your parents had sex? (http://www.realadultsex.com)
Fucking To Heal (http://fuckingtheministersdaughter.blogspot.com)
Half-Nekkid and Tending to Nature (http://www.TarasNaughtyShop.com)
I’ve Been Outed…. AND I’m Back….. (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
No Rumors (http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com)
The origins of the cane (http://www.spankingwriters.com/blog)
Screaming Orgasm- it’s not just a drink at the bar (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Sex and cupcakes (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)
A Sexual Theory (http://www.seska4lovers.com)
Snip-Snip, Quack-Quack-Quack (http://virtual-sex-tourist.com)
Where I’m coming from (http://principalquattrano.com/blog)
Why do I masturbate? (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)

Mika Tan picture courtesy of Internet is for Porn.

09.13.06

Where I’m coming from

Posted in Female superiority at 11:43 am by angela

It wasn’t that long ago that I believed that every one of us was created equal, male and female, the only differences perhaps being our unique talents. I believed, as is politically correct (among all groups, be they left or right, and especially in education) that childrearing and educational influences account for the differences in behavior between males and females of all ages, and that were we to treat them the same, they would behave the same. I also believed that children are naturally curious, and presented with the opportunity, will explore and research topics at great lengths.

Pretty obviously I don’t believe that now. Observations in schools where I have worked simply do not support this. I find that when given the opportunity to learn, increasingly girls are inspired by their future career options and choose to work harder, while more and more boys are deciding to live for the moment and skip today’s homework, even if it means being unable to earn a good living in the not-too-distant future. I find the structure we have in schools nowadays caters to the innate talents and tendencies of femaleness, while ignoring the innate male tendency to slack off and fuck up. Does this mean I support those proponents of all-male academies that cater to the inner child of young males? Not on your life. What those boys need is a lot of structure and discipline, and fewer choices. Specifically we need to stop offering boys the opportunity to choose to fail, to not participate in their own education.

I think that students should be segregated by motivational level. It is true that more boys would end up in the highly structured classes than girls, but this isn’t gender-based discrimination. Even though being discriminating as far as academic achievement is concerned means that the students who need extra structure would be primarily boys, life is full of decisions and choices. I would prefer to assure that all students acquire the ability to learn when needed, and this is something not currently being taught. All boys and girls in the structured program would be shifted between programs as they showed they were able to handle freedom and use it as a learning tool. If a boy told me that he thought there should be a quota to make sure there are equal numbers of males and females in that top motivational group, I would just tell him that he earned his way into the slackers group and could earn his way out again.

It’s hard for people to break out of that mental box to recognize where facts end and cultural myths take over. I was very much influenced by Steven Pinker, who wrote that male and female sex-linked behaviors are universal, and thus unrelated to childrearing traditions in any one culture. Later he demonstrated that many aspects of behavior we attribute to (blame on) family influence are very probably entirely heritable. In other words, if you’re a dumbass, and your father is a dumbass, more than likely you got it from him. Or if you have zero curiousity about the world around you, and your parents do not either, then you are not a good candidate for homeschooling. In that case, though, your parents won’t want to do it anyway, and you’ll probably end up in public schools like all those other dumbasses who are willing to work much harder to avoid learning than it would be to allow education to happen.

So you see where I’m coming from now, or maybe you just have a glimpse.

Last but not least, having finished my site overhaul, I have started two new blogs in an effort to streamline them thematically. This blog will continue as my femdom blog, Ask the Principal will do Q&A service. and my phone sex blog will cover subjects having to do with, well, sex.

09.05.06

Sugasm #45!

Posted in Sugasm at 11:41 am by angela

Sugasm #45

Mon 4th Sep, 06

The best of the sex blogs this week by the bloggers who blog them. Spotlighting the top 3 posts voted by Sugasmer participants. Want in Sugasm #46? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
Foreplaying pool (http://gentlygently.blogspot.com)
“‘What say we make this interesting,’ I began while circling the table looking at the available shots, ‘If I win, I get a kiss.’”

All Tied up (part 6): The End (http://dirtyandthirty.blogspot.com)
“To cut a very long story short (well, not quite that short), the evening finished with me cumming all over Thirty’s beautiful body.”

Tableau of sensuality (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
“Use your other hand to explore further South… tickle that sensitive area around my navel… stroke the silkiness a little further below… and then you’ll find that silky soon becomes slick, plump and moist.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Fred Wilson, Venture Capital and Pornography (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Sexbit – Fundraiser (http://www.seskuality.com)

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BDSM and Fetish
Caught: Domination (http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com)
Help Me Clay Aiken! (http://designingintimacy.blogspot.com)
Isabella’s Eyes – Part VII (http://nyc-urban-gypsy.blogspot.com)
On the Spanking Menu (http://spankingwriters.com/blog)
Slave Positions (http://www.alternativealbany.com)
Sunday Confessional (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
Tales From Under The Desk, Part 8 (http://thebinside.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics
Happy HNT-Hawaiian Memories and an announcement! (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
The Intruder (http://www.internetisforporn.com)
Teeny Tiny Plus Big ‘n Hard = Hot (http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com)
Why Does This Turn Me On? (http://sugarjoy.com)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Instructive desire (http://lumpesse.com)
Living Without My Computer Temporarily….. (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)
Not a total bitch (http://lustylady.blogspot.com)
RANT: God’s Asked Me to Whale On Yo Ass, MoFo! (http://cuntinglinguist.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
The Day Wank (http://wanklog.blogspot.com)
Details… (http://dontwakethekids.blogspot.com)
Disclosure (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
How I got hooked (http://slickerywhenwet.blogspot.com)
I Want… (http://www.kingdomofmean.com/sheets)
On the Other Side of the Green Door Part IV (http://www.taratainton.com)
Role Playing #4: Porn Film Shoot (http://confessions112.blogspot.com)
Saturday Night (http://suddenslip.blogspot.com)
Seduced by the Goddess (http://fuckingtheministersdaughter.blogspot.com)
Splash! (http://penguinsinhiding.blogspot.com)
Their First Time (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Watch (http://pick-up-pieces.blogspot.com)

Sex News and Sexy Reviews
Free Shipping Offer Extended! (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)
Orgasm Army Sex Toys Review – Candy Bra (http://orgasmarmy.com/blog.aspx)
Pressuring Hotels to Censor Porn (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
Straight Porn Review: Stick it in Deep (http://blog.johnqafterhours.com)
We Didn’t Get the Party Boat (http://blog.babeland.com)

Sex Work
A Virtual Voyeur? (http://principalquattrano.com)
In Theory: The Dissection of the Allowance of Respect and Whether Erotica Models are Deserving of Such. (http://damnjezebel.com/diary)
Webmaster Partying (http://www.seska4lovers.com)

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