03.31.07
Posted in Losers, phone sex at 2:07 pm by principalquattrano
Or maybe they’re crawling out from under rocks and logs.
One customer called twice today with a bizarro fantasy that he had inserted himself upside-down in a clear plastic tube to get my attention, and now was stuck there as some other women and I laughed at him for two minutes each time.
Then I received an email from loser number 2.
I am an educated, feminized male. Ok, the women I work with call me a FAG. I am truly submissive to my men and women. I do not interact with women sexually, but from past life experiences I have a fetish for dominant ALPHA women. If you desire to humiliate and berate my shortcomings (which are many), I would promptly call to let you put me in my proper place as long as I am not watching the Golden Girls. My social calender is non-existent except for when I am pleasing the men in my life. Let me know if I an stupid enough fucktard for you.
In complete honesty,
Loser
I replied:
Loser,
We can talk. But I will expect you to admit to me your flaws in excruciating detail.
Looks like that education didn’t do all that much for your social skills, eh?
The Principal
So he called. He revealed to me what a loser he is in great detail, telling me it started when his sister caught him with some porn when he was 12 and blackmailed him mercilessly, eventually having him do favors for all her girlfriends, while they laughed at him.
Laughter? I’m good at that. I fired up my webpage of recordings of myself laughing and started to click on it. The boy went into a trance. After a while, I stopped to check on him. Groggy, he told me that even he had never before realized the depths of his worthlessness. I told him he was a pathetic fucking loser piece of shit, and started the laughter up again. A while later I heard the recorded voice come on that tells you the call is over.
When I checked in my account I found this:
3/31/2007 
I have never been laughed at so hard, I creamed my panties
Close enough.
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Posted in phone sex at 4:51 am by principalquattrano
I talked to a caller the other night who called on my ‘Anything Goes’ listing. He was under the assumption that it meant I would do absolutely anything for him, regardless of what I had written in my text. Or maybe he just hadn’t read the text, gathering from the title that it was something to do with the Principal’s office, and assuming that, once again, he was going to be getting anything at all.
He had a rape fantasy. The Principal doesn’t do those. They are also against tos, depending on the call.
Now if he wanted to dominate me or have me get very slutty he would need to call me on my “submissive” listing. I’m willing to do it there for a little extra coin, because it requires some acting on my part, and I don’t find it fun.
But it’s a two way street. If a guy wants to dominate, he has to act dominant, not just like a psycho or an asshole. We have too many of those guys at the Gold Star Academy of Discipline already. We break them sooner or later. It’s what we specialize in, and we’re good at it.
Although the Principal has been known to allow herself to be seduced if the caller is skillful enough. If our students were really that good at anything, well, they wouldn’t have been sent here, would they?
Then a little dick black guy called looking to get fucked by big white cocks. I made him equipment manager of the football team. He will be traveling with the team to make sure their “equipment” is well taken care of while on the road. Wouldn’t want that pent-up energy to make them lose their focus in the clutch, now would we?
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03.27.07
Posted in Sugasm at 2:07 pm by principalquattrano
Mon 26th Mar, 07
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03.18.07
Posted in Legal system, Politics, Sex work, Women's rights at 10:23 am by principalquattrano
This entry is based on Identification of the Adult Entertainment Industry as a Social Taboo is a Social Construct — Thursday, March 15, 2007
Read it. Think. Then read this.
A basic point missed is that the subjugation, etc. of (female) sex workers is not merely done by men. Women who are not sex workers probably do this even more than men. Men who use the services of sex workers have a variety of attitudes toward them. Most respect them, understanding that they serve a need. I have never run into the attitude that my customers would be happier if I were poor and desperate. They are glad that I am earning a good living, so I can continue to provide them with services.
The attitude is different in the general public, and differences within vary mostly by degrees.
Women and men both project their sexual fears and anxieties on female sex workers — and this is a society with many sexual fears. They feel sex is dirty. They villify female sex workers and scapegoat them in an effort to feel cleansed themselves.
If there was no demand, obviously we would all voluntarily find another line of business. Society’s disapproval of our profession is based on the fanciful notion that supply determines demand, that if supply were to be cut off, demand would go away. Society at large is unable to face the fact that their own are voluntarily purchasing our services. It must be something evil that we have done to suck them in. This is not normal. Sex is not one of OUR family values. Good men are chaste, aside from when they are with their wives, and forever if their wives decide they are no longer interested.
All of which, biologically speaking, is bullshit.
Remember Mom’s motherly advice to her daughter. Sex is dirty and disgusting. Save it for someone you love. Women would only do something so degrading if they were forced to do it. But even if they were forced, it’s their own fault. No self-respecting woman would do such a thing. She would do absolutely anything to avoid it — live on the street, stay married to a man who beats her, even work at Walmart, which pays so little she would qualify for food stamps and other social services.
But here we are, not only not dead in the gutter — as we would be in a “fair” world where THEIR rules are actually applicable — but doing quite well both economically and emotionally. It is a slap in the face to those who already are having trouble reconciling their values with reality, and finding a poor fit.
Therefore, anything bad that happens to female sex workers is perfectly all right. It’s acceptable in the eyes of people who feel this way to pass laws that make our lives unsafe and to cause our lives to be less safe if they selectively fail to enforce the ones that exist.
There is the dangerous attitude among many men that they deserve sex from whatever woman they want it from. They feel it is an injustice whenever a woman might reject them. They feel that the sex worker has chosen the work (and these are people who feel that choosing one form of sex work is the same as choosing them all) and they feel no inhibition whatever when it comes to acting on these feelings. It is these men who are dangerous to women sex workers, and this attitude in general that threatens women in the industry.
Some men who use the services of sex workers are unable to perceive boundaries. Like the guys who call a phone sex operator looking for a domme, or an escort, or gfe, they think that the fact that a woman has chosen one form of sex work means she has chosen all types. Or they think that we really don’t want to be here, and we’re just trolling for a husband. Guys like this probably have issues with boundaries for women in other sorts of relationships, too. Since I know so few of them - in comparison to the apparently normal guys I’ve met in the business - I think that they are atypical and not representative of customers at large. When I say this, I am not saying that the attitude is atypical, but that it is atypical among true paying customers.
It is men who pay for sexual services who truly respect women.
Prostitution and Sex Work
This topic is a difficult one that lies at the crossroads of feminism, morals, pleasure, gender inequality, exploitation and male violence. The difficulty in discussing it is compounded by the large degree of diversity and stratification of experiences within prostitution: from straight and gay prostitutes on the street to elite escort services. The range of experiences increases again if we explore sex work, which takes into account exotic dancing, the adult movie industry and an increasing number of people who run an adult-oriented website that features themselves. Further, the level of exploitation in sex work should be compared and contrasted with a variety of exploitative, meaningless and alienating work produced by a technologically advanced, consumption oriented capitalist society. The question is thus not whether sex work is exploitative, but how does it compare with being a waitress, working in a factory or a McDonalds - perhaps even a graduate assistant?
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1996 interview with Carol Leigh, sex worker and activist
Feminist Perspectives on Sex Markets
Another Perspective
Prostitution is not “sex work;” it is violence against women. It exists because significant numbers of men are given social, moral and legal permission to buy women on demand. It exists because pimps and traffickers prey on women’s poverty and inequality. It exists because it is a last ditch survival strategy, not a choice, for millions of the world’s women.
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How Pornography is Inherently Damaging to Women
This is long and boring. I’ll give you a brief summary. Pornography is always damaging because the customer is not seeking to relate to the sex worker as a whole person. He only seeks a part of her, her “image”. But it’s not just simply damaging, it is “violent”. Hmm… I’m trying to think of the last time I interacted with anyone out there, seeking the whole person. I don’t want to bring home the clerks at the corner store or the guy who pumps my gas. I want them to stay on their side of the divide. Is that violent of me?
Read more, if you dare
Bayswan - Bay Area Sex Workers Advocacy Network.
Letter to “Office to Combat and Monitor Trafficking in Persons” challenging information in “The Link Between Prostitution and Sex Trafficking”
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03.11.07
Posted in Tech stuff at 6:23 am by principalquattrano
Whatever they call those damned little images that are supposed to verify that you’re a human, as bots can’t read the letters and numbers to type in the box. Well, I can’t either, and I have perfectly normal eyesight.
I’m on the web a lot. I have to log in and out of stuff all the time, not the least of which is to find content for my blogs. They make those things so hard to read that for some of them, you have to try over and over again before you can tell whether that’s a ‘t’ or an ‘i’ sitting on a blotch and a squiggle.
I’m starting to feel like an Andy Rooney.
Maybe I’m just jealous. They look like they work awfully well as a security method for keeping bots from posting in your blog…
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03.09.07
Posted in phone sex at 5:25 pm by principalquattrano
I’ve been getting a few stories submitted for my Fiction section, but I’m still looking for more. Face it, you’ve got erotic fantasies. You may even be able to express yourself in complete sentences on a good day. So why not?
But seriously, a thought came to my mind about the customer from a year or more ago who had the greatest femdom fantasy. The key was the details. This went on for call after call after call, and each was different, like a chapter of a book. Only a few tiny details gave away that it had to be a fantasy, not reality.
So it occurred to me that this would be a great story to publish on my website. It would not be just a story, but a serialized novel. With his ear for details, it would be ideal on my site.
So I sent him an email inviting him to call and offering him free minutes. Guys are such suckers for free minutes. I rarely give them out, but when I do, it is for somebody who I really want to call, and they get the message.
A lot of girls will never give out free minutes. They say they don’t work for free. Well I don’t either, but those free minutes got me an 80 minute chat with a customer who had previously spent a lot of money on me, a customer I didn’t actually expect to call me again, as his fantasy was complete. We had a nice long chat about the origins of his fantasy and of mine. It turns out I’m the first flirt who has outed him. We have a lot in common, meaning that we have both skimmed details from many phone calls to build our fantasies on. I have built my site, and he would like to build one, although he is not in a position to do so.
Maybe we’ll be doing a little collaboration. Fun, fun, fun.
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